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How To Build Relationships Thru Your Blog!

02/09/2010 | By Misty Belardo
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More and more people are going online and for varied reasons.  Some do it for pure information and research and others to connect with people from all over the world.  Ever since I started being more active online, I’ve noticed that the gap in time and distance is becoming more and more irrelevant.  There are so many avenues where by people can now connect.  You have Twitter, FaceBook, LinkedIn, etc…

Have you read the article that my friend @adamsconsulting wrote here on Bit Rebels? 10 Tips To Build Meaningful Relationships on Twitter http://bit.ly/7wX3Kv.  Did you know that as bloggers you can build meaningful relationships with fellow writers and readers as well?  How you may ask?  Here are some of the things I personally experienced when I started to blog.

1. Comment on other Blog sites -  I have already given the benefits of commenting on blogs you read on The 5 Reasons You Should Comment on Blog Posts. Ultimately, when you leave comments, you get to open your world to other bloggers and their readers.  Most of the people I am also close to on Twitter I met first through blog sites.  I would often times get invited to write guest posts and from there I became really good friends with the owners of the site.  One prime example would be @Minervity.  I started visiting his blog and would make comments, later on we would collaborate on some new materials, overtime he has discovered my love for writing and now I am part of Bit Rebels.

2. Respond to comments made on your blog – There are people who love commenting on blogs and if they happen to make a comment on your blog, take the time to engage with them.  The circumstance is perfect as you know that you are discussing a topic that you both are interested in.  Maybe they are already following you on Twitter, but they are just afraid to talk with you real time, and the place they would most probably do it is through your blog.  Take this opportunity to speak with them in an area where they are comfortable.

3. Write content that encourages conversation -  I love it when I see people having creative and constructive conversations on blogs.  So I believe it is important that one also provide content that is thought provoking or topics that are relevant to the times and to the niche that you have chosen to write about.  I myself have learned so much by just reading through the conversations.  I am amazed at writers who, in their own way, are able to create engaging content, so much so that the article comes to life and people are touched with the written word and they share it and live it.

4. Share and Collaborate - The main reason that I do love writing here at BitRebels is the collaboration and the sharing that happens between the writers.  Other than Bit Rebels, I am very lucky to know people who are authentic and people who would really go out of their way to support and encourage.  I am speaking both online and offline friends.  They would visit the blogs I write, make comments and also discuss other topics that they know would help me grow as well as my readers.  I always value the tips and the push to grow.  Being open to suggestions is another way to build relationship.  Giving is important too!

Building any relationship whether offline or online does not happen over night.  It takes commitment and discipline.  Giving is always better than just receiving.  Besides blogging becomes more worthwhile and fun and not to mention can give you more fulfillment and satisfaction knowing that one way or another you have touched someone’s life with your words.

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Author: Misty Belardo

Misty is a Digital Activations Director for one of the most awarded interactive ad agencies in the Philippines. Her true love is design and self-expression. She believes in encouraging others to bring out their creativity to the surface and in whatever medium they feel comfortable with. A designer at heart that loves hand drawn design. She enjoys sketching, painting and doodling. Creating avatars and hand drawn icons and logos are her favorite. Gifted with a very active imagination and uses that to blog about her interactive experiences. Coffee and music lover. Loves social media, Twitter and FaceBook. Connect with her on Twitter @mistygirlph and FaceBook : Mistygirlph


17 Comments

Tom | Build That List

February 9th, 2010

Online relationships are just the same as those with your friends and family. The ones that flourish are those that you spend time nurturing.

You cannot have a relationship without dialog, and communication must come both ways.

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Roschelle

February 9th, 2010

All great tips that truly work. It’s amazing at what a bit of interaction with your blog’s readers can accomplish :)

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Misty Belardo

February 9th, 2010

Thank you guys for your feedback!! Yes communication is essential in any relationship :)

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marty

February 9th, 2010

good advice! now i’m leaving a comment lol =)

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Misty Belardo Reply:

lol Thanks Marty!! You have always been one of the people who knows how to reach out :)

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@bonniessquires

February 9th, 2010

All great points. Thank you so
much for this blog. It was very helpful.

I’ll be reading the other 2 blogs in
this post to.

It is nice to learn new things.

http://twitter.com/bonniessquires

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Doug

February 9th, 2010

Thanks for these tips Misty. I will start using them right away.

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Paul Chong Reply:

We humans are by nature gregarious. We like to socialise, interact with one another & not being alone as a hermit. Cyberspace affords greatest opportunity for that. When it comes to blogging all restrictions of time & space, censorship & freedom set you apart from the conventional journalism.

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Your Name

February 10th, 2010

Hey thanks for the tips. I just started a new blog so will put these for use.

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Misty Belardo Reply:

wonderful!! let me know which site so I can visit :D

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Kaushal Reply:

http://teaandtalks.com
Still on with it but made two posts. :D
Suggestions are welcome.

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Brent ~ the roseman

February 10th, 2010

Awesome article as usual Misty. I try to write a little something on all the blogs I visit. Now, I’ve got a couple blogs, but it seems like no one’s “discovered” them yet. Am I doing something wrong? Maybe it’s my content, or maybe it’s my blogs format is all wrong… This is my main blog: http://therosemansmusings.blogspot.com/ Maybe I just haven’t found my “voice” yet… Maybe I just have to work on becoming a top commentator. Hmmm… and on rereading this comment, maybe I should work on my grammar too eh?

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Misty Belardo Reply:

Getting people to visit your blog takes time, and a lot of effort, have you tried promoting your site? have you tapped your niche? Just some questions that might help. Plus if you have tapped your niche and then you can write more articles that can really be useful and on target. :) I know you will find your voice! :)

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Branwen

February 11th, 2010

Curious what makes a comment worth replying to?

I’m open to people leaving comments, but I’m not sure
all comments need a reply. Sometimes I’ve seen comments that were off the topic of the article. Anyway, I appreciate the social media tip. I’m also following you thanks to your article.

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Misty Belardo Reply:

True, not every blog entry needs a comment. or if you notice others just rant.. I feel that leaving a constructive comment is so much better. It will always allow the writer to improve his work.

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Rick Swift

February 16th, 2010

I liked the article and actually heard about it via a twitter friend. Sometimes I get frustrated when people don’t post real comments on my content though, where you can tell they are just SEO blog-filling etc. Keep up the good advice stuff.

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Misty Belardo Reply:

I know what you mean. Just press forward. Thank you for visiting us here at Bot Rebels

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