Today I learned that there are a lot of women that cry during sex. Of course, since I’m a big time crier, I had to learn more about this and share it with you.
I cry a lot. It isn’t always a bad kind of cry, many times it’s a good cry, but I cry about once a day. Sometimes more. It feels good to me, like I’m overflowing with emotions and have to let it out. I should buy stock in waterproof mascara.
When I was researching crying during sex, if found a few reputable websites that said, “Consult a doctor about this just like you would any other problem.” and I also found some other just as reputable websites that basically said, “This is just a release of emotion. It’s not a problem.” Since I am a very experienced crier, I’d like to weigh in on this, and I agree with the latter.
Of course, there are exceptions to the rule when a woman could be getting hurt or be reminded of a bad memory during sex, and I would never ever want to downplay the sadness or seriousness of that situation.
However, most of the time, I think it is just an extension of the intense emotions she is feeling (tears of joy). No, it’s not because we saw a glimpse of God or anything like that, it is much simpler. It just feels really good, and if we are deeply in love with you, it is just going to intensify that emotion.
If you are the man in this situation, I can see it could be very confusing. This could be yet another reason why you think women are impossible to understand. What should you do in this situation? Don’t roll over and say, “I love you” if you don’t mean it, just because you are confused. Haha! It’s ok. Some of us are just emotional, and in most cases, you should take it as a compliment. :)
Oh, and ladies, just so we don’t feel alone, there are men out there who also cry during sex. Just read this short paragraph entitled, “Weeping Willy” on http://www.askmen.com
This video explains it perfectly, and you will understand more after you watch this. Thank you TMIweekly, for making this clip and explaining it in such a light hearted and funny way!
I would like to give credit to http://www.flickr.com/photos/29440446@N08/ for the great main image in this article.