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Explaining Twitter to Those Who Don’t Get It

08/05/2009 | By Diana Adams
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Last weekend I went to a charity event sponsored by a national television show. As I watched the sponsors get up in front of everyone and say, “We think it is better to connect with you this way than through Twitter or Facebook.” I immediately took offense. I thought, “How dare they insult my precious Twitter!” Then I quickly realized they didn’t mean to be offensive, they just simply don’t get it.

When confronted with a situation like that, what do you do? I have met so many amazing people on Twitter. I’ve built solid relationships, I’ve even gained clients and I now get to write for this awesome site because of Twitter. I’ve met people on Twitter than I’m closer to than people outside Twitter. All of this is because I signed up for a Twitter account and made a decision to give it my best shot.

But when the average person thinks the purpose of Twitter is to tweet what you had for breakfast, how do you explain the real deal? When the morning news still states, “Beware of social networking sites because they can disconnect you from real life,” it is hard to stay positive about what the outside world thinks of Twitter. Are your Twitter friends “REAL”? Of course they are!

So, here are 5 tips I’ve come up with to help us explain Twitter to people who don’t get Twitter:

1. Remember that just because Twitter is special to you doesn’t mean it’s going to be special to everyone you talk to about it. Save yourself a lot of frustration by accepting that and moving on! Explaining Twitter is different from converting someone over to it. Everyone has to come to Twitter on their own terms. You cannot want it more for them than they want it for themselves.

2. Explain Twitter by describing it as sending short emails that lots of people can see. I’ve found that most people can understand that. The next question out of their mouths is usually, “Why do you want to tell strangers what you are doing?” I answer that by saying, “That is a very small, yet important personal aspect of Twitter. I like to share information and links related to my business, and I follow people that have the same interests, and I learn from them. It is about much more than tweeting what we had for breakfast, but because we do tweet what we had for breakfast, there is a very personal aspect that is light-hearted and fun.”

3. Next, I explain that if they are going to get on Twitter, they will probably want to plan to devote at least 15-30 minutes each day to it, otherwise it’s tough to build those new relationships. Why is that? Because Twitter is REAL LIFE and you cannot build real life relationships by always doing the “tweet and run”. Ask any person that is active on Twitter, they will tell you that it is about engaging. If you answer an @ reply three days later, that does not count as being engaging.

4. People always want to know what’s in it for them, right? There is a wealth of information on Twitter. Even if someone starts following just a small core of about 50 key people, they will be in the middle of all the action! The twitter experience is really all about who you follow. If you are not careful about it, you will pollute your stream with spam and worthless information. If you are careful about it, you will find a pot of gold! so explain that it’s all about who you follow!

5. Last but not least, explain that Twitter is fun. It is all about fun. My friends @mistygirlph and @minervity remind me of that. At the end of the day, Twitter is a fun distraction that does not ask for a lot in return. Sit back, relax and have a good time on Twitter. Take it as slow or as fast as you want. It is never a competition. Just be yourself and have fun!

If you’d like to share your thoughts with me directly about this, tweet me @adamsconsulting. I’m looking forward to it!

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Author: Diana Adams

By day, Diana is the CEO/owner of Adams Consulting Group, Inc, a technology services and business solutions consultancy firm serving the specific needs of its clients in advertising and public relations. By night, she lives and breathes by writing. After publishing a small cookbook last year, she is now working on her new masterpiece, scheduled for publishing next year. “I could write all night long and not get tired of it. I think that is when you know you’ve tapped into a true passion. Whatever that thing may be, if you could do it all day or night long, lose track of time, ‘wake up’ ten hours later, and still thirst for more, that is a passion, and I feel like I’ve found that in my writing.” Diana also spends many hours each week assisting the homeless men and women in Atlanta. You can find her on Twitter at @adamsconsulting.


30 Comments

Misty Belardo

August 5th, 2009

This is such a cool article, great tips too. And you are right, we can’t expect anyone to understand and have the same experience that we have. At the of the day, all i can say is that I am so glad I get it!! :) Great post as always Diana!! I simply love it

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Richard Laksana

August 5th, 2009

I will definitely share this with my friends that don’t understand twitter.
I tried to explain that there are wealth of information floating around on twitter but at the end all I get was flame war from my facebook fanatics friends LOL.

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Anthony Hortin

August 5th, 2009

Great post Diana. Totally agree with you. I’ve met some of the most amazing people through Twitter. Thanks.

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Richard Darell

August 5th, 2009

HAHA! Awesome! Alright, I have to take a day when i tweet EVERYTHING I do! I wonder if ANYONE would be interested in that. Err…

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Your Name

August 5th, 2009

Good Diana…I always enjoy reading ur tweets you are beautiful and smart

see you on my tweetdeck

mcduchamp

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gautam hans

August 5th, 2009

great tips! i agree u should have all the aspects the personal part as well as the information after all its all about interaction and sharing knowledge isn’t it?

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Diana Adams

August 5th, 2009

Thank you all for your wonderful comments. I’m lovin’ you!

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Julio R Varela

August 5th, 2009

Nice post. Great tips, but I have given up explaining it to people and will just laugh wickedly three years out when it becomes everything we do on the web. Seriously, great post. Thanks for sharing.

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Paul McPherson

August 5th, 2009

this is a wonderful ongoing experiment of sharing what you want and sharing what makes you…

I love it

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DAHLIATWILIGHT

August 5th, 2009

this article is awesome will send link to new tweeple =)

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Tina Hallett

August 5th, 2009

@geminilady75 I felt this article was everything I’ve ever wanted to explain to friends who just don’t get twitter.
You see, for me, Twitter has connected me to so many like minded people all over the world.
It has also enabled me to follow people I admire and/or respect and have some insight into their lives.
I am somewhat interested in the lives of the celebrity and now I no longer read papers or magazines to get any celebrity gossip.
The truth is on Twitter

The truth is on

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Diana Adams

August 5th, 2009

You are so right! I feel the same way about Twitter. I love and appreciate you all. Cheers!

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Your Name

August 5th, 2009

I already “get” Twitter, and use it all the time, but love the article to share with others for instructional purposes, and the video had me LOL in tears!Thanks!

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Your Name

August 5th, 2009

::Applause::
Excellent post, Diana. So very true. I have had so many people question the value of Twitter and it is very hard to explain if you haven’t experienced it’s process. And that is the thing about Twitter. When you stop, give it a chance and use it with PURPOSE you definitely get a “return” on your investment: a community of individuals with the same interests all willing to SHARE the awesome information they come across. I absolutely LOVE Twitter. And may I say, to me, FB is NO Twitter. Thanks for sharing!

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David Pontoh

August 6th, 2009

Thanks a lot for the tips. Very useful and effective.

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Trudy

August 7th, 2009

Great post. I think this is a good way to explain Twitter to someone. I notice when someone says that they don’t get it, it seems to be a frustration and sometimes anger behind it. By explaining it as fun and short emails plus a way to get info and network, perhaps their opinion will change on it. Thanks!

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Teri

August 7th, 2009

I feel so refreshed after reading you post Diana. Kudos!! I had been up to me ears with post about the twitter “Do’s and Don’ts” Never found one explaining how to tell others about twitter when they just don’t get it. Twitter is a fabulous learning & networking experience that happens to be loads of fun!

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Teri

August 7th, 2009

Forgot to mention the youtube “Twitter ruined my life” was hysterical!!!

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@lacouvee

August 9th, 2009

Thanks Diana although I had to laugh at “tell them they’ll want to devote 15-30 minutes a day to Twitter to build relationships”. I wish!

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Val Spangler, SeniorTweet

August 9th, 2009

Thanks Diana – what is Twitter? – a stimulant to creative thinking: My (creative?)responsive tweet:
What Is & Why Twitter?
Scratch&Itch –
Head scratching, ((Think about it!))
back scratching, ((You scratch my back-I scratch yours))
scratching UR itch, (( Stating an opinion or B________!
scratching out a living,((trying to make money on Twitter))
scratching a note 2UMyFriend:) ((Communicating with -old & new friends.))

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Angelika

August 14th, 2009

You received a High Five from me HERE. :-)

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Your Name

August 15th, 2009

I agree with @Angelika very fine hi-q information

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Jared

August 23rd, 2009

Good article, some people just don’t get it. When I first joined it, I had no clue what the point of it was, but I eventually realized its positive uses, and am now happy I joined it.

And lol @ the Twitter ruined my life vid.

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Savory Tv

September 15th, 2009

Excellent! I only wish more people especially on the corporate level, would read this. Twitter is not an endless one way self promotion feed. Interact with your users people, don’t be a robot! Because the only people that will follow you are other robots.

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sarah

September 16th, 2009

This is a brilliantly concise and eloquent summary… entirely in agreement with it. I find it hard to explain the range of information and knowledge I get through Twitter and it’s made much more engaging by the personal quality…you’ve summed it up perfectly here…

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Diana Adams

September 16th, 2009

Thank you all for your wonderful comments. I am humbled.

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Eva Gill

October 15th, 2009

Thanks for the ideas Diana. I think we’ve all run into a lot of people who are curious, but wonder why anyone would tell the world about their food.

Sometimes I use the analogy of the old chamber of commerce luncheon, only with people from around the world who are interested in the same subjects as you. You share information about what you do and build rapport, while also talking about the food. If you think someone else would be interested in talking with this new person you met, you pass the information on, and vice-versa. People seem to get that, since they’ve usually experienced it.

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Jon Pear (a.k.a. NeuroAster)

December 12th, 2009

#140rriffic :)

So then what are the best #ways2explain #hashtags and #bots? :) Every week I’m trying #2explain2 someone what a #hashtag is and/or what a #bot is :)

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Diana Adams Reply:

Jon,

You know what is so funny about that? I have tried and tried to explain hashtags to people and I have come to the conclusion that I’m just plain terrible at it because nobody gets it. Hahaha!!

We have a great article on this site about hashtags, so I usually direct them to that and call it done.

When you figure out how to explain these things so people get it, please let me know. :)

Diana

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@hannibal666

February 4th, 2010

And when you’re done reading Diana’s eruditely riot act, just sing this song. And if they still don’t get it, they can go fuck themselves.

CHEERS Theme Song
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xvRGh2NEjSU

Making your way in the world today takes everything you’ve got.
Taking a break from all your worries, sure would help a lot.

Wouldn’t you like to get away?

Sometimes you want to go

Where everybody knows your name,
and they’re always glad you came.
You wanna be where you can see,
our troubles are all the same
You wanna be where everybody knows
Your name.

You wanna go where people know,
people are all the same,
You wanna go where everybody knows
your name.

Full Lyrics never actually aired

Making your way in the world today
Takes everything you’ve got;
Taking a break from all your worries
Sure would help a lot.
Wouldn’t you like to get away?

All those night when you’ve got no lights,
The check is in the mail;
And your little angel
Hung the cat up by it’s tail;
And your third fiance didn’t show;

Sometimes you want to go
Where everybody knows your name,
And they’re always glad you came;
You want to be where you can see,
Our troubles are all the same;
You want to be where everybody knows your name.

Roll out of bed, Mr. Coffee’s dead;
The morning’s looking bright;
And your shrink ran off to Europe,
And didn’t even write;
And your husband wants to be a girl;

Be glad there’s one place in the world
Where everybody knows your name,
And they’re always glad you came;
You want to go where people know,
People are all the same;
You want to go where everybody knows your name.

Where everybody knows your name,
And they’re always glad you came;
Where everybody knows your name,
And they’re always glad you came…

@hannibal666

Follow @hannibal666 to #enlightenment!
http://www.twitter.com/hannibal666

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